154th Nurturing Thursday

Oh, how I wish …
I would have been taught this in my younger years …
how much easier it would have made my journey!
Give yourself permission — “love yourself”!
❤
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Frequent Contributors to
Nurturing Thursday:
Meg Evans
Tea and Paper
{Grace}
Woman of Art and Mind
ladyleemanila
Mazeepuran
Indira’s Blog
Inside the Mind of Isadora
Jacqueline King
Laurie’s Gentle Healing Notes
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What is Nurturing Thursday, you ask?
In this amazingly competitive society of ours, how many of us truly feel good about ourselves? How often do we extend to ourselves … the same courtesies, considerations, nurturing, forgiveness and understanding we would a loved one, a friend, or even a stranger?
Our culture tells us we need to be special and above average to feel good about ourselves. Yet, it is not possible for all of us to be above average at the same time. Don’t we usually know of someone richer, more attractive, “more together” or successful than we are? Even if we discount the material aspects and consider the more spiritual facet, don’t we know of those who seem more at peace, more aware or living in the moment. Even when we do manage to feel a strong sense of self-esteem or self-confidence, we are not able to consistently hold on to it. For most, our sense of self-worth bounces around like a ping-pong ball, rising and falling strongly tied with our latest success or failure.
In an effort to eliminate labeling ourselves as “good” or “bad”, and clearly accept ourselves with an open heart … to treat ourselves with the same kindness, caring, and compassion we would show to a good friend … I would like to incorporate more self-compassion and self-kindness in my life.
To “give this planet a much needed shot of fun, support and positive energy” … I am dubbing Thursdays as Nurturing Thursday.
If any of my readers are interested in joining the nurturing, I applaud and welcome you to do so … the more the merrier!!
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Lovely challenge… Here’s my first attempt… https://lumar1298.wordpress.com/2015/11/10/nurturing-thursday-contemplation/
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I love the cosy feel of the image, Becca ~ that woman is definitely comfortable with herself! I agree that it would have been lovely to have known this earlier in life ~ I’ve learned to live by this message in later years. Here’s my contribution, after what seems like quite a long break: http://taoofscrumble.com/2015/11/05
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Yup, we don’t have to wait for someone else to give us permission before we can love ourselves.
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Thanks for this sweet reminder. Here is my contribution
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Profound and so true. Though I have a couple of long-time friends, I am just as happy by myself.
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I agree with you dear. Nice and very true quote. Here is my contribution- https://amaltaas.wordpress.com/2015/11/05/nurturing-thursday-friends
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Beautiful message! Here is mine: https://livingwithmyancestors.wordpress.com/2015/11/05/nurturing-thursday-6/
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great message 🙂
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Hi Becca, perfect quote of all. Many women need to read it (including myself 🙂 . Here is my link:http://teandpaper.com/2015/11/05/another-favourite-book/
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Just LOVE this image, and the wise, wise words! I marvel at my daughter’s self-possession (she’s almost 18), and compare myself at the same age… Hopefully our generation are the last to struggle with crippling self-doubt 🙂
Here’s my contribution, Becca: http://womanofartandmind.blogspot.co.uk/2015/11/nurturing-thursday.html
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I love this message! What a wonderful idea, nurturing Thursdays…
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Join us anytime the spirit moves you! 😀
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